Getting sexy with Xia Pleasure Objects

During the 2024 Berlin Porn Film Festival, myself and a number of other wonderful Paramours attended a community networking event to mingle with other businesses and individuals creating radical positive change in the sex-positive scene of Berlin. One wonderful connection from this day was meeting Vivien D. LaFleur - founder and brains behind Xia Pleasure Objects.

As can be read on the Xia website ‘The philosophy behind Xia Pleasure Objects is to produce less and better, taking care of the design down to the smallest detail, spending all the time necessary to perfect ergonomics, finishes and usability, always in conversation with our growing community. By focusing on non-vibrating toys and using the highest quality materials, we make products that are safe for your body and will give you pleasure for a lifetime.’. Materials used are FDA-approved platinum grade silicone and production occurs in ‘North Spain, ensuring the quality of the entire supply chain, from silicone manufacturing over ethical working conditions to short transport distances.’. 



The many layered integrity of these toys make them hot, hot, hot for those of us who love attention to details that stretch beyond the design of an object and into the real life impact it has the planet as well as the bodies that play with it or are involved in the production of said toys! As you can read in a wonderful Interview by Zoya Misha here (http://tiny.cc/hh0o001) its obvious that Vivien has done extensive research into the sadly pathetic industry norms and is dedicated to creating products that aren’t just sexy as hell but also incredibly body safe. The Xia website also provides a recommended selection of excellent lubricants to pair with your toy which is a detail I loved in getting to know this brand.

Paramour Collective had the pleasure of using some of the Xia toys as props in our first photoshoot of 2025 and wanted to highlight this great product with our community! After meeting at Kotti for a drive-by dildo pick up before our shoot in February, so we got to making some sexy magic during our group photos to stimulate your fantasies. 


Vivien generously gave me a dildo to keep and I have thoroughly enjoyed getting to know its curves and textures over the last months. It has become my staple dildo in my work bag for client bookings, the toy is easy to handle and has varied intensity possibilities thanks to the variation in the two ends sizing. As a bit of an aesthetic snob I am personally super fussy about the colours of my toys and think the cooler, discreet blues and greys are a great alternative to classic hot pinks and purples dildos that saturate the market. It gives an air of being a therapeutic object, maybe making it more approachable to those who may have long shied away from wielding a dong to play and please their partner (I’m looking at you cis-het amab cuties!). Girthy, curved and bold in all the right spots; the range of erogenous spots that can be stimulated with the Xia Pleasure Object is broad which I thoroughly appreciate and makes it a great choice for any body.

Being non-vibrating, it’s super easy to disinfect the Xia Pleasure Object in a generous bath of boiling water and / or toy cleaner and works wonderfully when paired with a condom for extra hygiene safety.

Check out xia-pleasureobjects.com/en-au for more information, to find the and to buy your Xia Pleasure Object.